The Question Answered.

Sometimes, we wander, why is this happening to me?

Why isn't life more fair?

We keep asking those questions to ourselves when things don't turn out the way we want. We go into grieve and start sulking about the many sorrows we receive. At times, people will lose faith and focus, they lose the sense of logic and rationality. The worst would be when one would fall into depression. Up to here, we think, why is this so, what have we done wrong that fate has to bite us back in this way.

This is life, reality kicking you in the face telling that nothing is ever real in that mind of yours. The reason that we receive such agony is because, this is what we call life. Life is never constant, it is ever changing; so what right do we have to think all will always go well for us. These are all the natural order of the universe, and so, sometimes when we are kicked and punched in the face, we just have to be strong and sometimes fight back.

It is the ones, that can handle the burden is usually the one who is shouldered with the responsibility. These are cues for us, to push harder to overcome all these problems. All we need is just a little resilience.

The answer came to me, when I asked "Why did it happen to me? Why is it in this way?", it explained that sometimes, we just need to be stronger and move on. This is reality, and it isn't as sweet as it tastes.

Then another side of me had to ask, what if the answer I got was a lie? Meaning, we ask why this happens or why did someone do this to me, and the response to them when we ask them why is "It wasn't me. I didn't know."

Then this is the time we will know, reality really hurts, especially when we have doubts of the one we care about.

Whatever it is, how good things are or how bad things are, life still needs to go on. There is not a point to wander about the past and grieve about it but rather to take it as an example to do better in the future.