Section B
My mother always said : "Without women, there will be no
men." I use to think deep about that, and then, one day, it
finally dawned on me. Women were the soul and
breadwinners of the family. The birth and fall of human
civilisation, and the cause of many great leaders to rule or to
crumble.
If you were to ask me whether women would make better
leaders, with a sigh I would have to say 'Yes'. Yes, women do
make better leaders. They do make better rulers, and they
definitely do better at managing things.
Call me a traitor because I am a man, but I have to admit that
women can lead better than men. History has proven that.
Women can shake the world. I will give you a few examples to
support my stand.
In Greek mythology, Zeus, the king of the gods, had one major
weakness. That was a lust for women. He exploited women,
had too many sexual encounters with them, and this led to his
ultimate downfall.
He was "greedy" for women, and was willing to change
himself into various animal forms, in order to attain the woman
of his intentions. Zeus even once changed himself into a fish
in order to obtain a nymph.
Zeus was so obsessed by women that he even fell for artificial
women - created by Hera, his long suffering wife. He was so
overcome with his lust for other women that he did not care
about the state of affairs of Olympus. This goes to show that
women can even bring down a god.
Next we take a look at the Emperor of Rome, Julius Caesar, the
dictator. He was a brilliant general and tactician. He too was
undone with his passion for the Egyptian Queen Cleopatra.
The Romans never accepted that Caesar stopped short at
conquering Egypt, but instead let Queen Cleopatra reign and
gave her the protection of Rome.
Caesar was murdered because of this "betrayal" of Rome, and
upon his assassination, the Roman Empire marched into
Egypt.
Another lustful man was King Henry VIII. He was not only
lustful but vicious as well, though he was know as the
Defender of the Church.
He had his wife Catherine of Arragon stripped of her titles and
confined to her rooms because he was so enamoured with
Anne Boleyn, and the church did not allow divorce.
King Henry VIII eventually broke away from the church, and his
lust for women was so out of controlled that he had his
knights and advisers murdered just so that he could have their
wives and sisters.
These are examples of women bringing about the downfall of
men.
Now I will name a few women who were better leaders than
men.
The first being Elizabeth I, the daughter of Henry VIII. Though
her father so wanted a son to carry on the dynasty, Elizabeth I
proved to be the greatest monarch England has ever had. It
was under her reign that England became the most powerful
country in the world.
The second was Indira Gandhi. The first and only female
Prime Minister of India, that brought it out of the dark ages.
She brought India from being a major importer of food, to be
become a major exporter of food. She also started the nuclear
program.
Thirdly, there was Margaret Thatcher - the Iron Lady of Great
Britain. She is the only woman to have been the Prime Minister
of the United Kingdom, and the leader of the Conservative
Party. These coups have never been repeated.
All these women had optimism and courage to change the
world for the better.
One might say, women are too emotional and soft hearted. Not
strong physically enough to carry heavy loads. But who do
we turn to when we need advice and comfort? Who do we
trust more? Who always has the willpower to be successful?
Who is the ever present cheerleader encouraging you on?
The answer: Your mother.
Yes, the woman who has been with you since the moment you
were born. The one who held your hand when you wanted to
walk. The one who was the first to help you up when you fell.
That woman is your mother.
Mothers lead gently, quietly. Always making us feel like it was
our idea, and never once taking credit for all the good that we
eventually accomplish.
Patience, wisdom, compassion, courage, humility, strength -
those are the traits of a leader, and most women have these
inborn.
Ask most influential people why they are a success, and they
will definitely tell you how their mothers guided them, and were
firm with their goals.
They will tell you how, even though in poverty, their mothers
would somehow work and find the money and pay for their
education. Some of these mothers have even got awards for
bringing up the children single-handedly and making
successes of their lives.
A woman is able to comfort you and give you strength. She
has the ability to calm you down, and give you encouragement
to try again when you are at your worse. She will make you
believe in yourself even when no one else believes in you. A
woman can touch a man's life.
There will always be the proverbial debate on a woman's
emotions being an obstruction to being a good leader. But
emotions sometimes make us more human, and we are able to
see things more subjectively rather then objectively.
Women are more optimistic than men and they are able to
withstand greater amounts of pressure and pain. As the
renown self-help guru, Dr Phil once put it, "men see with their
eyes, women see with their heart."
Yes history has it that men are more capable of ruling the
country, and have contributed more to mankind. However,
read the fine print, behind those men, have been women.
If women were to dictate with tyranny, there will do it much
worse than a man, and if a woman were to counsel a weeping
child, she would pour her heart and soul into it.
So, like I said, call me a traitor to my fellow brothers, but I still
stand firm that women do make better leaders, for too many
times have girls moved me more than any of my "brothers"
can.
A very big thank you to my mom, who helped to perfect the essay. This essay was my answer for my mid-term examination English paper.
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